2019 Wrap-Up

Time to talk about another incredible year in my life!!

In true Jenna fashion, 2019 turned into something spectacular. It was filled with unexpected joys and weird little detours, and at the end of this twelve months, I am incredibly grateful for everything that happened to me this year. I started in January with a lot of goals, and miraculously, a lot of them were accomplished.

I wanted to read 100 books.

I wanted to finish writing a first draft of a novel.

I wanted to learn how to cook (and enjoy the process).

I wanted to stop eating added sugar.

I did all of that. ALL OF IT. And, on top of that, I self-published a poetry book that debuted at #1 on Amazon!

When I told everyone my 2019 resolutions, pretty much everyone I talked to gave me a look and said "Wow you're ambitious." And because I'm a Taurus, I had to be stubborn and do it all. Even though it was stressful at times to do everything, and I still really want a donut, I'm doing great. Better than ever, actually.

I have realized a lot of things about myself in the past twelve months, and it's led to a lot of personal growth. I started seeing a counselor, and she's been really helping me recognize how I can improve my mental health, which was the biggest unexpected blessing of this year, I think. I'm learning how to step into the daylight and let it go (ha), and part of that is realizing that New Year is actually my favorite holiday. I know a lot of people hate this holiday, and they don't like being so introspective, but I like getting to reflect on the things I've done in any given year. I like accomplishing things and looking back to be grateful for everything I've been through. It gives me more purpose and more drive to try harder in the next year. And sometimes that doesn't last all year, sometimes I don't accomplish all my resolutions, but I think it works for me. It gives me a lot of momentum in the months where most people feel super depressed. (Granted, even though my most productive months are Jan/Feb, my most depressing months are June/July, but whatcha gonna do?)

All that being said, I think I need to calm down in 2020. People are going to ask me about resolutions, and while I've thought about some I could do, I think this new year is going to be slightly more relaxed for me. I have plans, things I know are going to happen, but I don't want to spend the entire year tallying off books or frantically trying to create internet content. In 2020, I want to finish editing this current fiction novel I'm writing. I would love to find an agent, but that's pretty far off right now. I also have plans to move, to start freelancing full time (YIKES), to get a tattoo, to see a bunch of shows, and lots of other fun things. I may be "relaxing" on my resolutions, but I am NOT slowing down yall. The 2020s are going to be wild, and I'm ready for it.

As always, I consumed so many stories this year, and I wanted to celebrate that with you today!

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BOOKS

  1. Red White and Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston

  2. If We Were Villains by M.L. Rio

  3. Imaginary Friend by Stephen Chbosky

  4. The Starless Sea by Erin Morgenstern

  5. The Song Rising by Samantha Shannon

  6. The King’s Men by Nora Sakavic

  7. A Discovery of Witches by Deborah Harkness

  8. Let’s Talk About Love by Claire Kann

  9. The Priory of the Orange Tree by Samantha Shannon

  10. Serpent & Dove by Shelby Mahurin

  11. The Folk of the Air series by Holly Black

  12. I Was Born for This by Alice Oseman

  13. Radio Silence by Alice Oseman

  14. The Hating Game by Sally Thorne

  15. A Very Large Expanse of Sea by Tahereh Mafi

  16. There’s Something About Sweetie by Sandhya Menon

  17. I Wish You All the Best by Mason Deaver

  18. The Unhoneymooners by Christina Lauren

  19. Ninth House by Leigh Bardugo

  20. The Haunting of Hill House by Shirley Jackson

  21. Daisy Jones and the Six by Taylor Jenkins Reid

  22. the mermaid’s voice returns in this one by Amanda Lovelace

  23. Beyond the Black Door by A.M. Strickland

  24. Call Down the Hawk by Maggie Stiefvater

MOVIES

  1. Knives Out

  2. Booksmart

  3. Jojo Rabbit

  4. Spider-man: Far From Home

  5. Avengers: Endgame

TV SHOWS

  1. A Discovery of Witches

  2. The Umbrella Academy

  3. Schitt’s Creek

  4. The Good Place

  5. Russian Doll

ALBUMS

  1. Neotheater by AJR

  2. Trench by Twenty One Pilots

  3. Blurryface by Twenty One Pilots

  4. Saves the World by MUNA

  5. Lover by Taylor Swift

  6. Vessel by Twenty One Pilots

  7. Love + Fear by MARINA

  8. Phantoms by Marianas Trench

  9. Heard It in a Past Life by Maggie Rogers

  10. Fine Line by Harry Styles

  11. Dermot Kennedy by Dermot Kennedy

  12. when we all fall asleep, where do we go? by Billie Eilish

SONGS

  1. Daylight by Taylor Swift

  2. Like a Girl by Lizzo

  3. Pink Light by MUNA

  4. Back in my Body by Maggie Rogers

  5. Moderation by Florence + the Machine

  6. Karma by AJR

  7. The Killing Kind by Marianas Trench

  8. when the party’s over by Billie Eilish

  9. Take Me Home by Ingrid Michaelson

  10. For Island Fires and Family by Dermot Kennedy

  11. Why Am I Like This? by Orla Gartland

  12. Hallelujah by Oh Wonder

  13. A Song for Everything by Maren Morris

  14. demons by Hayley Kiyoko

  15. Push for Yellow (Shelter) by Valley

MOMENTS

  1. When Taylor Swift showed up at the butterfly mural on 4/26

  2. Interviewing Stephen Chbosky - who then said I was one of the best interviewers he’s ever had

  3. “Sober Up” by AJR from the photography pit in LA

  4. “I Know a Place” by MUNA Live in Nashville

  5. Self-published my poetry book and sold over 1,000 copies

  6. Had a poem traditionally published in Amanda Lovelace’s book AND FOUND THAT POEM IN BERLIN

  7. Photoshooting in the LA National Forest with Heather at sunset

  8. When Harry Styles came out at the Kacey Musgraves concert and yelled “YEE HAW!”

  9. Interviewing Austin Roa in OKC

  10. “Jumpsuit” by Twenty One Pilots Live in Atlanta

  11. Taking photos with Kenzie Kate in the desert

  12. Waking up in our VRBO in Berlin the first day and seeing the courtyard in the sunlight

  13. Watching the sunset as we flew into Helsinki

  14. Finishing the first draft of my novel at a coffeeshop in Franklin

  15. The ballet scene in the new Oklahoma!

  16. Octet with Laura

  17. Listening to “Take Me Home” by Ingrid Michaelson on the beach at Lake Michigan

  18. Facetiming Hannah from a wedding right after she got engaged

  19. First Nashville Pride in the rain with Katie & Emily

  20. When I cooked a whole lasagna by myself for my birthday get-together

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